Actually, *I* say I prefer to read carefully and respond. good for you, and your choices made. I hope you can become more happy with mine. I honestly can't tell if you're trolling me, or really mean the vibe you're tossing out, but it's coming off as kind of rude, to me anyhow.
I'm so relieved I made the cut. (I think I did, anyway, I'm not sure how fast this thing updates). Anyway, scottobear, I think your swell. I'd hate to lose you as a friend.
I just got such a huge influx of folks, it bacame a chore rather than fun to read all of them. If it's not fun, it's work. If it's work, I should get paid. :)
I agree. I only have fifteen (some don't even write very often) and if I'm gone for a day I have to spend a lot of time going back and catching up if I want to be wholly attentive - but I'm not really wholly attentive anyway, whatever that means.
How?! My god, keeping up with comments and everyone elses journal and my raging inadequacies and soap opera life . . . gee. With all my trying I'm still an underachiever. Go me!
I think there could have been a better way to deal with this situation. I would have sent emails to the folks that you thought would have noticed that you removed their names, or waited until you heard from them first. The chosen method turned your LJ into an audition of sorts (note the number of people who are pleased they 'made the cut', so to speak). I totally understand wanting to concentrate on the few journals you read frequently or whatever, but I also understand some folks being upset because you just hollered out 'callbacks' and they weren't on the list. *shrug* Just my opinion.
I hear you. I totally didn't mean for it to turn into an audition at all. It was rather lazy of me just to trim off a bunch of people, and do one quickie 'sorry' comment in my journal. if this has to happen again, I intend to be more sensitive to the feelings of some of the folk on the list here. It saddens me that I might've hurt some folks's feelings... I didn't realise how personally some folks (especially those I'd added very recently, and had never posted to my in my space at all) would take being bumped off. I still scan through other journals...
I don't know. I don't like hurting folks, regardless of the reasons, and this seems like it was over something trivial.
I am easy ... I am low maintanence!!! =) Thanks for keeping me with ya buddy!
I can see where you are coming from though ... I am here at work and I don't have time to just sit and read everything and then respond, esp. some of the books people write. But ya know, this is a journal ... you are suppose to feel free as to write what you want to write in it ... and honesly, sometimes I feel that I am just peeping in on other people's lives ... Cider is the only person I really know on here!
So, this is basically something that just keeps me busy and entertained ... is that wrong?
I guess it's just me... I'm too easily engrossed in other people's stories. if I'm away for just one day, I have to cycle through my allotted 120 or so reversals. Too many fascinating people to read!
Yahoo! Thanks fer keepin me in yer dang friends-list ScottoBear...
I ain't hardly got no friends an don't nobody hardly post nuthin in my dang kook-fest what i calls my Lj anyhow so ifn ya needs some extry stoage-space fer all them extra folks what wants to keep talkin with ya i can let ya use some o my space...i took out the old lawn-mowin-machine so i gots plenty o room for ya if needed...unless'n i'm a sleepin on the floor...
well unless'n them revolting fellas is gonna be lookin in Granmas basement i thinks i'll be jus fine but i does thank ya fer the warning...unless'n of course theys a gonna be readin' this here journal an that means i jus gave my whole dang plan away....
Too true. I'd avoid gramma's basement now, for the life of me, were I you. unless that's your plan, make us think you won't be there, and it'll be a good place to hide.
oh yeah...that's it...i ain't gonna be nowheres near Granmas basement...no sir,be jus a big ole waste of the fellas time to be a searchin all over that dang dark basement..especially in that back corner behin that ole burnt out furnace crawl-space..no sir i wouldn't be in there ifn it was the only place i knowed to hide...probably a whole mess of big spiders livin in there right now waitin to bite on them revoltin fellas...
no subject
Date: 2000-08-30 11:43 am (UTC)Wuss.
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Date: 2000-08-30 11:50 am (UTC)I suspect 30 will become my critical mass.
more power to you. :)
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Date: 2000-08-30 11:56 am (UTC)Nobody says you have to read them all carefully and respond.
Wuss.
Yikes.
Date: 2000-08-30 12:01 pm (UTC)Re: Yikes.
Date: 2000-08-31 06:43 am (UTC)no subject
Anyway, scottobear, I think your swell. I'd hate to lose you as a friend.
making the cut
Date: 2000-08-30 11:53 am (UTC)I just got such a huge influx of folks, it bacame a chore rather than fun to read all of them. If it's not fun, it's work. If it's work, I should get paid. :)
Re: making the cut
Date: 2000-08-30 12:00 pm (UTC)Re: making the cut
Date: 2000-08-30 12:04 pm (UTC)no subject
Or maybe I'm just too hard to keep up with otherwise, hrm . . . *g*
I always knew my life was really just a bad soap opera.
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Date: 2000-08-30 12:16 pm (UTC)How do people that maintain 2 or more journals keep on top? hyperkineticism? Schizoid tendencies?
I know of at least one person that maintains actual content of value (to me) on 2 journals.
I'm beginning to suspect she's Tyler Durden.
Christ on a stick
yay!
Date: 2000-08-30 12:29 pm (UTC)don't scare me like that :)
No offense
Date: 2000-08-30 12:49 pm (UTC)Re: No offense
Date: 2000-08-30 12:57 pm (UTC)I don't know. I don't like hurting folks, regardless of the reasons, and this seems like it was over something trivial.
no subject
Date: 2000-08-30 01:56 pm (UTC)I can see where you are coming from though ... I am here at work and I don't have time to just sit and read everything and then respond, esp. some of the books people write. But ya know, this is a journal ... you are suppose to feel free as to write what you want to write in it ... and honesly, sometimes I feel that I am just peeping in on other people's lives ... Cider is the only person I really know on here!
So, this is basically something that just keeps me busy and entertained ... is that wrong?
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Date: 2000-08-30 02:12 pm (UTC)Hot Dang!!!!
Thanks fer keepin me in yer dang friends-list ScottoBear...
I ain't hardly got no friends an don't nobody hardly post nuthin in my dang kook-fest what i calls my Lj anyhow so ifn ya needs some extry stoage-space fer all them extra folks what wants to keep talkin with ya i can let ya use some o my space...i took out the old lawn-mowin-machine so i gots plenty o room for ya if needed...unless'n i'm a sleepin on the floor...
*cough*
Re: Hot Dang!!!!
Date: 2000-08-30 02:34 pm (UTC)You're a good felow, and when the revolution comes, I'll do my best to see that you are dealt with painlessly.
Re: Hot Dang!!!!
Re: Hot Dang!!!!
Date: 2000-08-30 02:52 pm (UTC)reverse psychology rarely works.
Re: Hot Dang!!!!