scotty, take longer than a week. Take as long as you need.
This may be huge.
I think it is very special that they would choose you for such a big thing. One of the biggest thing ever.
I know that you are very giving and in one way this could be the ultimate gift. But I am just worried about your feelings. I know how much you get along with and love kids. I also think that you would like to have your own someday. Is now that day? Biologically any child you have with Chase would be your child. A little Scott or Scottina. He could look just like you. Feel just like you and if his parents are honest with him about you he or she will want to know you and spend time with you and call you when bad things happen and you will want to be there when all the good things happen. Like birthdays and holidays.
Does this sound good to you? Would you like this? maybe. But do you think it is what Chase and her gf have in mind? And will you really be comfortable having no say in raising the child? You are a man of deep feelings and strong values. And no offense of course, but you are also free with your input. (heh heh) Do you really want to put yourself in this position?
Jeez, I feel like I could go on and on. Listing pros and cons. But I guess what I am really saying is. Take longer than a week. I mean if you got a job to move to Germany or met a girl who you might want to marry or even if you were trying to pick out just the right birthday gift for a friend you might take longer than a week. So take longer. Take as long as you need.
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Date: 2000-09-12 03:21 pm (UTC)This may be huge.
I think it is very special that they would choose you for such a big thing. One of the biggest thing ever.
I know that you are very giving and in one way this could be the ultimate gift. But I am just worried about your feelings. I know how much you get along with and love kids. I also think that you would like to have your own someday. Is now that day? Biologically any child you have with Chase would be your child. A little Scott or Scottina. He could look just like you. Feel just like you and if his parents are honest with him about you he or she will want to know you and spend time with you and call you when bad things happen and you will want to be there when all the good things happen. Like birthdays and holidays.
Does this sound good to you? Would you like this? maybe. But do you think it is what Chase and her gf have in mind? And will you really be comfortable having no say in raising the child? You are a man of deep feelings and strong values. And no offense of course, but you are also free with your input. (heh heh) Do you really want to put yourself in this position?
Jeez, I feel like I could go on and on. Listing pros and cons. But I guess what I am really saying is. Take longer than a week. I mean if you got a job to move to Germany or met a girl who you might want to marry or even if you were trying to pick out just the right birthday gift for a friend you might take longer than a week. So take longer. Take as long as you need.