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Feb. 21st, 2001 08:37 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
scottobearwoo.
Is it normal for a male to have fantasies of raising a child with a woman? another in my long list of reasons I think somebody slipped me a spare X chromosome. I think of my with her in a year, 5 years, 20 years... and whatever comes with it..I think that once we were together, a baby would follow quickly...for she's not only a brilliant and loving woman, but I find her to be fantastically beautiful and erotic. I imagine in a short span there'd be a little girl with my blue eyes and her red hair & fair skin... I wonder what sort of parent I'd be, and what sort of partners my love and I would be like... we synch up a lot, and I feel we have pretty similar values, too. I wonder how we'd balance out discipline and the desire to have fun...
Is there such a thing as a 'paternal instinct'? I think of the joy that would come from helping to create a life... to nurture it, assist in it growing, watching it blossom... going through the good times and bad. I imagine the pride in my love's eyes as the munchkin takes first steps, says first words... reading with them at night, helping with homework, being there for them.
I also think about my love as we'd grow older together... maybe having grandchildren. (mind you, I'm picturing that 20-25 years from now... )
I don't know... all I do know is that I love her more and more every day.
Is it normal for a male to have fantasies of raising a child with a woman? another in my long list of reasons I think somebody slipped me a spare X chromosome. I think of my with her in a year, 5 years, 20 years... and whatever comes with it..I think that once we were together, a baby would follow quickly...for she's not only a brilliant and loving woman, but I find her to be fantastically beautiful and erotic. I imagine in a short span there'd be a little girl with my blue eyes and her red hair & fair skin... I wonder what sort of parent I'd be, and what sort of partners my love and I would be like... we synch up a lot, and I feel we have pretty similar values, too. I wonder how we'd balance out discipline and the desire to have fun...
Is there such a thing as a 'paternal instinct'? I think of the joy that would come from helping to create a life... to nurture it, assist in it growing, watching it blossom... going through the good times and bad. I imagine the pride in my love's eyes as the munchkin takes first steps, says first words... reading with them at night, helping with homework, being there for them.
I also think about my love as we'd grow older together... maybe having grandchildren. (mind you, I'm picturing that 20-25 years from now... )
I don't know... all I do know is that I love her more and more every day.
