Fibs.

[scottobear]

Why is it that so many people think that lies or half-truth is a good alternative to just being cool and being straight with folks? A friend of mine is pregant, and doesn't want her ex husband to know about it, fearing he'll feel bad. I don't know, but I think that once he hears about baby showers, and everything, it's going to be hard to hide she's having a kid. I'm from the "just pull the band-aid off, and be done" school. What's worse is that I feel obliged to help by not bringing it up at all... oh well. no biggie, really.

Comments

Things that make you go mmmm

[naughtia.livejournal.com]

I'm no caunselor or anything, but I think people have to lie sometime because they don't know who they are, and are afraid if they be themselves that people will regect them. So they just try to act like the people they hang out with to be excepted. Oh ya I hope your friend listens to you and just tells him it is better that way *from experiance*

Re: Things that make you go mmmm

[scottobear.livejournal.com]

Thanks. I don't imagine she'll take my advice, but I think your take on it is probably right. Rejection is a price a person pays for being themselves. (it's also a price they pay for not, sometimes) I've decided not to bring it up, but I'll go with the truth if asked or prodded. Just won't go looking for trouoble.

Truth

[naughtia.livejournal.com]

Well I think that you are on the right track!

Re: Truth

[scottobear.livejournal.com]

Thanks. I wasn't sure if I was headed in the proper direction. I appreciate the input!

Your Welcome

[naughtia.livejournal.com]

Glad I could help, if I did at all. I just was updateing my journal and stumbled across yours, thought it look pretty cool.

Re: Your Welcome

[scottobear.livejournal.com]

good of you to swing by! How did you find me?

Finding the Bear

[naughtia.livejournal.com]

Well I just set up a journal myself, and at times am alittle lost for words so I was browsing around today to see what sourt of stuff other people write about,it's not that I can't think it is that I think to much. So I saw your pic next to your journal and thought it looked interesting so I read on.

Re: Finding the Bear

[scottobear.livejournal.com]

Well thanks for coming by, and swing past again, anytime! :) Always welcome, 24/7.

Re: Finding the Bear

[naughtia.livejournal.com]

I will make sure to stop by again thank, and feel free to come by my site also!

Re: Finding the Bear

[scottobear.livejournal.com]

I've done, and will do so again quite soon. :)

See ya around

[naughtia.livejournal.com]

Glad you stopped bye hope to talk to you soon have a good night!

Re: See ya around

[scottobear.livejournal.com]

you too! :) yikes! what a string!