Only you and I can read this, CJ.
Jul. 25th, 2001 08:25 amMy brother calls me last night, and we talk until the wee hours of the morning. He's broken up with his girlfriend, for good this time. Apparently she's gotten a job at an escort service (the kind of escort that has sex with it's clients) and not tell him. (She told him she got a telemarketing job, then that it was phone sex. He started getting suspicious when she was dolling up to go to a telephone job.) Finally, she calls him on the phone, at 9am (she was due home at 5am, and he was up worried about her.) She tells him what she's doing, *over the phone*. He says that he forgives her, but says that he won't be intimate with her until she gets tested, and that he can't be with her if she continues to be a prostitute. She says "But the money's so good!"....He says (and I agree) that money isn't the issue at all here, it's safety, and good sense not to work that kind of job, and that there are a lot of perfectly good not-so-life threatening and socially acceptable jobs out there. She doesn't want to hear it, so Derek tells her that if she's making so much money, she can find a new place to stay. It turns out she already has found one, and is having a friend drop off the key to their apartment last night. All of this over the phone.
My poor brother was numb for most of the day... he called me at 11pm, and reiterated the whole story to me, and was in a reasonably good mood considering, when we got off the phone a while later... we were joking, and I think he realizes that he is just getting out of a bad situation with her. He is debating calling her father and tell him what's going on, so that maybe he can get her out of the business, but isn't sure if butting in is the right thing to do. I don't know either, but I feel that getting her some help, regardless of how embarrassing it is for all involved is probably the best thing they can do.
He's too nice a guy for this to happen to. Far from perfect, but we all are human.
anyhow that's the crux of it...I'll tell you more later when I see you.
I hope your cold is fading fast, and that you got to sleep quickly last night, after we spoke.
*good thoughts*
My poor brother was numb for most of the day... he called me at 11pm, and reiterated the whole story to me, and was in a reasonably good mood considering, when we got off the phone a while later... we were joking, and I think he realizes that he is just getting out of a bad situation with her. He is debating calling her father and tell him what's going on, so that maybe he can get her out of the business, but isn't sure if butting in is the right thing to do. I don't know either, but I feel that getting her some help, regardless of how embarrassing it is for all involved is probably the best thing they can do.
He's too nice a guy for this to happen to. Far from perfect, but we all are human.
anyhow that's the crux of it...I'll tell you more later when I see you.
I hope your cold is fading fast, and that you got to sleep quickly last night, after we spoke.
*good thoughts*