Hmm...ok, my perspective on this, as someone who could probably be in the same situation as your two friends at some point in my life, is : just say no. As awfully decisive and perhaps, infringing, as that sounds, there are too many issues at stake that could potentially hurt you, them, and any future offspring. Children aren't something to play with just because they, and maybe you, feel ready to make such an awesome decision. You are a pretty cool guy, and I would really hate for you to be wrapped up in something like this for the rest of your life. But then, this IS just my opinion. Take care!!
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Date: 2000-09-11 06:13 pm (UTC)