What you say is true, certainly. I don't think a week is long enough to say yes, but it's a good length of time to say no. I hear what you're saying about my feelings, too. (I've had pretty strong differences of opinion with those girls, too, on occasion.) I would love to have input on the childs upbringing, but I don't think that will go over very well with them... and ultimately it will be the decision they make. It's an odd situation for me, certainly, and I'm going to take some time to work it out.